WHAT DAD SAID HE WANTED OR WHAT MOM SAID OR WHAT UNCLE JOHN SAID. AND LET’S TRY TO FOCUS ON WHAT WE DO TO RESPECT THEIR WISHES AND TO HONOR THE LIVES THEY LIVED. NOW, ELAINE AND I RENTLY HAD A GLASS OF WINE AND TALKED ABOUT OUR SHARED WORK. AND JUST ONE. [LAUGHTER] I SAID TO HER, THERE ARE MANY, MANY DAYS THAT I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN LOOKING ON THIS STUFF FUR 30 YEARS. THERE ARE MANY, MANY DAYS THEY FEEL LIKE WE HAVE MADE VIRTUALLY NO PROGRESS. BECAUSE MOST OF THE CALLS I GET ARE ABOUT THE …